If you wish to forget the occasions in which others hurt your feelings, you must also stop remembering the occasions in which you hurt the feelings of others.
You can only choose one of these options. Choosing a part each from both these options makes you either a sadist or a masochist, with neither of these going to help anyone in the long run.
It is best to forgive yourself as well as others for past mistakes, at least after a note of apology has been tendered. But, if you aren't mature enough to do that, at least be fair in punishing yourself as much as you would punish others.
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